Here are the resources Pastor Pat mentioned in his message:

Book: Parenting Beyond Your Capacity

Author(s): Reggie Joiner and Carey Nieuwhof
Available HERE on Amazon.com.

Book: 12 Huge Mistakes Parents Can Avoid

Author(s): Dr. Tim Elmore
Available HERE on Amazon.com.

App: Parent Cue

Free app available on the App Store or Google Play.
For more information, go HERE.